I found a video of Love and Hip Hop’s Erica Mena beating on her baby daddy, Terror Squad affiliate Raul Conde. Not sure what caused her tantrum but judging from her words he did something disrespectful…I guess.
Yeah, I’m definitely looking forward to seeing more of her this season. Just the firecracker they needed to spice up the show.
Throughout most of my adult life, I’ve never had to deal with haters. In school I was the popular girl who never had issues with anyone. But, since I’ve had SheBloggin.com, they seem to be coming out in numbers. This is new to me. Again, I’ve never had to deal with it, so I don’t know how to handle it when it comes. Initially, it had a strong negative affect on me. My energy, motivation and concentration was down.
After heavy praying, and consulting with loved ones and my mentor, I realized that I should be grateful for haters. They say if they’re not talking about you, you’re not doing something right. Couldn’t agree more. Every successful person has someone behind them trying to tear them down; usually because they’re mad that they’re not where you are. So, I guess I’m doing something right. If my brand wasn’t doing well, I wouldn’t have no-life idiots in the midst trying to find something wrong in me. So to them I say, THANK YOU. You have confirmed that I’m doing my job and doing well. It’s a shame that you take time out of your day to try and tear me down, but at the same time, it’s very flattering that I mean enough for you do so. In the words of Wale, “well wishes to my opposition”. You are appreciated. You remind me that I’m on the right path.
Although my 2nd anniversary celebration isn’t until this weekend, technically, today marks the official 2nd birthday of SheBloggin.com. I’m gonna try not to get mushy, but I just wanna say thank you to everyone who visits my site; whether it be one time period or once a day…all of it is greatly appreciated.
I’m not just saying that. I really do appreciate you all taking the time out to view what I have to say. Sometimes I sit back and wonder, why would anyone care about what I have to say? Why should I think that my opinions matter? But you for some reason feel I’m important enough to take a few minutes of your time during the day and that really means a lot to me. When I started my blog, I was a nobody looking to voice my opinions and give upcoming artists a platform. Now, 2 years later, thousands visit my page daily and get the opportunity to hear some of the best hip hop has to offer, new and old.
I have a ways to go, but I am grateful to God for allowing me to make it this far with my brand and am humbled by the responses I get from you all on a daily basis. Thank you, again for your support. Words truly cannot express how much you are appreciated. Stay tuned, there’s lots more to come, including a big announcement after the weekend!